Friend says the realization of what Jesse has done is upon him now

Apr 28, 2010 15:01 GMT  ·  By
“Jesse [James] is finally admitting to himself that he blew it,” unnamed friend tells US magazines
   “Jesse [James] is finally admitting to himself that he blew it,” unnamed friend tells US magazines

Jesse James has recently left the Arizona rehabilitation facility he entered about a month ago seeking professional help for an addiction he refused to talk of with the media. In photos taken on the first day back to his pre-rehab life, Jesse is seen without his wedding ring, in what one of his friends tells PopEater is an acceptance of failure.

According to the friend, who chooses to remain anonymous, Jesse James is a broken man, having just now realized how he single-handedly destroyed the marriage and the beautiful relationship he had with Sandra Bullock. A little too late, some may say, since Sandra is already coming out of her self-imposed isolation, starting with a shock cover on this week’s issue of People magazine, in which she reveals her secretly adopted son whom she plans on raising as a single parent.

“Jesse is finally admitting to himself that he blew it. The marriage of five years with Sandra Bullock is over and he only has himself to blame. His stint at the Arizona rehab facility helped Jesse understand what he has done to his wife and his family. He is a beaten man. Jesse removing his wedding ring is a big deal. As long as he wore his wedding ring, he believed there was some hope. Now, he is finally admitting to himself and everyone else that any chance of getting back together with Sandra is dead,” the friend dishes for PopEater.

“It’s a good thing he likes being alone – because his bike is the only friend he has at the moment. Jesse still can’t believe what a fool he has been. He had everything in the world and blew it,” the spy adds. “It’s over between Sandra and Jesse. For a while, it looked like she was going to forgive him but not now. But way too much has happened and after spending time alone, Sandra has realized that she deserves better. It’s not going to be easy, but she’s an amazingly strong lady. Don’t worry, she will survive,” another unnamed friend reveals for the same celebrity e-zine.

As we also reported earlier today, indeed, Sandra is moving on. For the first time since the scandal began, she’s agreed to talk to the media and make a shocking revelation: she’s the mother of a three-month boy named Louis whom she will raise alone.