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World of Warcraft, Reason for Divorce

- Addicted gamer loses his wife for raids and levels

By: Calin Ciabai, Games Editor

World of Warcraft is one of the most successful MMORPGs, if not THE Game. It boasts over 10 million users worldwide and it is, for many people, their second life.
Unfortunately, it also is a second life that interferes with the real one and it has some pretty bad side effects. One of them is the divorce itself – one marriage ruined by World of Warcraft.

Yahoo Games reports this sad and strange story about Jocelyn, a 28 year old Californian woman that had to divorce her husband after a six year-long marriage. And everything happened, according to her, because of the level of addiction her husband had for WoW. And you can guess how serious it was if you consider the fact that they knew each other since they were 13.

"He would get home from work at 6:00, start playing at 6:30, and he'd play until three A.M. Weekends were worse - it was from morning straight through until the middle of the night," she told Yahoo! Games in an interview. "It took away all of our time that we spent together. I ceased to exist in his life."

Part of the fault, if you can say it that way, was Joycelin: she worked for a brief period of time for Blizzard, but not on World of Warcraft. Still, she brought the game as a Christmas gift to her husband in 2004 and, since then, things started to get worse: nine months after the MMO entered their homes, they had the first discussion regarding the marriage. It was not only the thing that the man ignored Jocelyn, but he also started to ignore his domestic duties. And one thing leads to another...

"I'm real, and you're giving me up for a fantasy land. You're destroying your life, your six-year marriage, and you're giving it up for something that isn't even real," Jocelyn gets to the point. Asked if she would ever consider marrying a gamer again, she said: "That's actually one of my primary criteria now - I don't want to marry someone who is a gamer."

So, be really careful, you gamers out there! Always have in mind that no fantasy world could or should replace your real life. Your loved ones are still here, on Earth.

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Comment #1 by Barb on 2008-04-17, 08:35 GMT reply to this comment 
I am living this. My husband of sixteen years started playing WOW about 4 years ago. He has gradually pulled away from everyone that loves him. He started an "emotional" relationship with a girl in his guild that is 13 years his junior. They recently met in real life (she met him on a business trip) and the relationship has become such a source of "happiness" for him that on our 16th wedding anniversary, he left. Moved out. When I found out about this relationship (emails) I confroted him and have since found out that he calls her 6-7 times per day for sometimes an hour at a time. Last month there were 100 TXT messages between the two of them. This is just another addiction that is going to kill a lovely marraige. I have 2 teen aged boys that don't understand why their father is gone and contimplating divorce. I am willing to work through this with him, but am finding it hard to compete with the other woman. Watch out Black Rook Hold (guild) widows, the virtual flirting and virtual terms of indearment are NOT harmless! Redmitten swooped down and now my husband thinks he's in love. Sad thing is, he has a wife and two kids that love him completely and truly.

Comment #2 by Trav on 2008-04-18, 00:34 GMT reply to this comment 
hi Barb

Your story is almost the same as mine. Except I'm the husband and it was my wife that told me she fell in love with another guy in the game. The worst part is that he lives in another country about 1500 miles away and they have never met It started out as friends but I guess the "harmless flirting" (as she put it) wasn't so harmless in the long run. I asked her to go to couselling with me but she had no interest. Its very sad to me that our marriage meant so much to me but so little to her.
So after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids - it came to an end. I kicked her out of the house and kept the kids because she had stopped paying any attention to them.
Take care and know that there's other people going through the same problem and have the same feelings of anger, resentment, and confusion.



Comment #3 by Jacob on 2008-05-09, 02:52 GMT reply to this comment 
My story is quite similar. My wife left me for a guy she met on Warcraft as well. She kept it secret until I got a 2000 cell phone bill where she was calling him in Canada. I found emails stating how she was his slave and she loved him, etc. Of course, this had to come to light when i was 600 miles away for 6 months for the military. I filed for divorce, etc. She asked if we could reconcile right before it was my time to get deployed. I'm probably being played for a fool, and am fully expecting her to run off right before i get back. I absolutely hate the internet now and that game.


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