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March 25th, 2009, 21:31 GMT · By

Love at First Sight Means 8.2 Seconds of Eye Contact

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Eye contact lasting an average of 8.2 seconds can mean love at first sight, researchers say
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Since love has always been, and will perhaps continue to be relative to each individual, scientists have a really tough job to narrow the concept down to a universal “recipe.” The same goes for attractiveness, which is equally hard to pin down in theory. In this sense, a new study comes to show that, where men are concerned, an 8.2-second gaze means they rate a woman highly attractive, which raises the odds of love at first sight.

The latest study was conducted on 115 male students, gathered in one single location and confronted with beautiful young actresses and models. Their eye movements, as they interacted with the women, were studied with the help of hidden cameras and then analyzed by comparison. As the figures revealed, a man who rated a lady attractive held eye contact for about an average of 8.2 seconds, which increased his chances of falling in love at first sight, researchers said.

Oppositely, if the gaze lasted for about 4.5 seconds or less, the man in question was not interested in any way in the woman he had made eye contact with, which meant he did not consider her good-looking enough. Ladies, on the other hand, did not make this distinction, since they paid the same amount of attention and held eye contact for just as long with both men they were interested in and those they did not fancy, for one reason or another, the same study showed.

Researchers believe that this difference between men and women can best be explained by the fact that the former use eye contact to seek fertile and fit mates. Meanwhile, the latter shy from making eye contact or drawing unwanted attention onto themselves for fear of unwanted pregnancies and single parenthood, it has been said.

However, one might as well add, if eye contact does not lead to love, then online dating certainly will, as another recent study has indicated. Of the 22 million people registered with dating sites in 2007, one in five actually met their true love and walked down the aisle with them, which would clearly indicate that online dating comes in handy when looking for love. “To date, there has been no systematic study of love in the context-of relationships formed via online dating sites. But with the popularity of online dating, it is imperative we understand the factors that influence satisfaction in relationships formed in this way.” Dr. Jeff Gavin, a researcher who studied the phenomenon of “love on the Internet,” told the Daily Mail a while back.
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Comment #1 by: Dating Symbol on 03 Dec 2010, 11:51 UTC reply to this comment

I must admit I didn't time how long I looked at the guy I was very interested in - but it was short and I knew - don't ask me how, that it was love at first sight for me. Something was working right for us - we're still together years later. So, whatever study you can come up with there are bound to be stories like mine and I can honestly say I never consciously shied away from making eye contact (with any guys) because of a fear of unwanted pregnancies and single parenthood. Where did that come from!


Comment #2 by: IrishBabe on 08 May 2011, 16:34 UTC reply to this comment

this is nothing like love at first sight jeeze i've exspeiranced it and its not what you are sayyin

Comment #2.1 by: brooksie on 17 May 2011, 14:35 GMT

i experienced what i can only explain as love at first sight over two years ago. it was themost wonderful pure feeling iv ever experienced and it felt so right. i am not a person who falls in love very easily the very opposite in fact so it truly knocked me for six so much so iv thought about him every single day since that snowy december saturday afternoon i am in a long term relashionship and am very happy as he is a kind thoughtful lovely human being i just can not stop thinking about this guy its crazy but just so right


Comment #3 by: koli on 13 Jun 2011, 05:31 UTC reply to this comment

i fell in love with a guy..frm the time i saw him..he meant the world to me.thou im extremly beautiful his just average gud looking but to me his the best...infact i heard its rich people say i went after money..!is dat true do u think i really fell in love wth him o is it just his money..but i knw 1 fact for real dat i love him so dearly n i want to live life with him.


Comment #4 by: carina on 07 Sep 2011, 05:24 UTC reply to this comment

I found my love online. But he did not find his love online. Too bad. I could be the happiest girl in the world....almost..


Comment #5 by: LENS. on 13 Dec 2011, 14:52 UTC reply to this comment

actually i dont have a lover ..but my god promised me that he will surely bring the person to me..who will love me throughout his life(love @ first sight) THATS MY BELIEF ...BECAUSE NOW I HAVE TO COMPLETE MY STUDIES.....

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