14 DAY TRIAL // We all have such a friend among us – the shy, reserved type who doesn't talk much. And when it comes to photographing such individuals, it’s quite difficult to get them to feel comfortable and relaxed so that the results end up looking natural.
The idea is that some people are more comfortable in front of the camera than others. Actually, most of us have a problem acting all natural in front of a photographer to some degree, but for some, these “issues” are more pronounced.
For example, I known people who will make a face every time you want to snap a photo of them and they do this in order to cover up their nerves triggered by the fact they are in the spotlight. But with a little effort and a bunch of tricks, you too can get the perfect shot out of that shy individual standing in front of you.
Have your subject do something
Most shy people relax if they don’t feel your whole attention is directed at them. That’s the thing, most of these individuals don’t like feeling they are the center of attention, they are obsessed with making mistakes and consequently, you thinking ill of them.
The best thing is to give them something to do or play with and the tension will quickly subside. So don’t ask them to hold a certain position because the results will probably be more than awkward.
Another strategy would be to take snapshots whenever they are not expecting it. For example, have them arrange something on the table or in the background and take a few shots when you feel they are at their most comfortable.
Take the time to build a human connection
You can’t expect shy people to arrive on the set, pose for pictures, and bam! you’re done. These people need a little warming into situations and getting used to the environment or the person performing the photoshoot.
The ideal scenario would be a friend shooting the shy person, but not all of us have photographer buddies. That’s why you might want to take a few minutes and talk to them and build a common ground that feels secure and safe to them.
You can also give them some useful tips. Maybe they aren't sure if this or that piece of clothing fits their physique or not and a third-party opinion will surely be welcomed. Keep talking to them as you shoot
It’s not a good idea to become Silent Bob while you’re shooting a shy person. Go ahead and crack a few jokes and compliment them whenever they are doing a nice pose or looking directly at you into the camera.
Such an attitude will certainly make them feel more at ease, rather than wishing all this fuss would be done with. And at the end of day, you both can be happy with the results.